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Why would anyone want to tie themselves legally to someone who has abused them for 15 years?

My brother invited me to his domestic partnership celebration. His intended has sent him to the hospital twice & verbally & emotionally abused him for 15 yrs now. I'm not attending & he's got the whole family in an uproar over it. I just can't stand to see him cement that relationship when he should be running the other way! He's so co-dependent, it's scary. Now I'm the bad guy!

Public Comments

I think you should tell him exactly how you feel. Then if he says he still wants you there, you can show up just to make him happy for a few and then leave. You cant change people, he will have to learn all this himself. You cant force him to leave unfortunately.
Hopefully he will see it eventually and break away from it, some people just get so low that they don't see any other way! I wouldn't feel like the bad guy I would keep voicing my opinion, hopefully you can change his mind before he does it!
It could be Stockholm Syndrome: Stockholm syndrome is a psychological response sometimes seen in abducted hostages, in which the hostage shows signs of loyalty to the hostage-taker, regardless of the danger or risk in which they have been placed.
you must check with a doctor please! and make him understand your point , convince him
Stockholme, Battered Wife syndrome, he needs help. Go for the ceremony and stay a little bit for the reception then leave.